After Pandora is a private members’ community

for open-minded, creative and sexually adventurous people

of all genders and orientations.

We run social events, where members can meet each other and play parties, where they can get to know each other somewhat better.


About After Pandora

Originally inspired by the film Shortbus and run by a team of enthusiastic volunteers, After Pandora brings together a diverse cross-section of people from London's Fetish and BDSM scenes. We aim to provide a constantly-evolving space where open-minded people can express themselves creatively and sexually.

Throughout the year we throw themed private play parties for around 100 of our members. Each event is unique, with a distinctive mood and performances enhanced by atmospheric decor. Our members respond creatively to the theme through their costumes and the roles they adopt as they explore.

Most months, we also hold socials, giving our members a chance to catch up with each other in a relaxed setting. These take various forms, including bar meetups, film nights and performance events.

If you're already a member, and you would like to offer your assistance with our community, whether it be technical, logistical, artistic or whimsical, please complete our Skills Offered form.

Joining After Pandora

We're unfortunately not accepting new applications right now, but if you're interested in joining our community then please sign up to our mailing list using the button below and we will let you know when applications are open again.

As a prospective member, we ask you to apply using an online form, telling us a little bit about yourself. Soon after we hear from you, we'll get in touch to invite you to our next social event.

At the social, you'll have the opportunity to meet some of our regular members. If you are approved by two or more regulars, you'll be invited to join us at future play parties.

This simple but unique membership process helps us remove any unsuitable applicants before rather than during our parties. As a result our events are intimate, safe places to play.