After Pandora is a private members’ community for open-minded, creative and sexually adventurous people of all genders and orientations.

We run social events, where members can meet each other and play parties, where they can get to know each other somewhat better.


About After Pandora

Originally inspired by the film Shortbus and run by a team of enthusiastic volunteers, After Pandora brings together a diverse cross-section of people from London's Fetish and BDSM scenes, providing a constantly-evolving space for open-minded people to express themselves creatively and sexually.

Throughout the year we throw private play parties for around 100 of our members. Each themed party is unique, with a distinctive mood and performances enhanced by atmospheric decor. Our members respond creatively to the theme through their costumes and the roles they adopt as they explore.

Most months, we also hold socials, given members a chance to catch up with each other in a relaxed setting. These take various forms, including bar meetups, film nights and performance events.

Joining After Pandora

We're always keen to welcome new people into our community, and we'd love you to join us.

As a prospective member, we ask you to apply using an online form, telling us a little bit about yourself. Soon after we hear from you, we'll get in touch to invite you to our next social event.

At the social, you'll have the opportunity to meet some of our regular members. If you are approved by two or more of these regulars, you'll be invited to join us at future play parties.

This simple but unique membership process helps us remove any undesirable elements before, rather than during our parties. As a result our events are intimate, safe places to play.